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Newsletter - Fall 2006
 
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Checklist for Funeral Arrangements
 
October 23, 2006
 
Alban "Alby" Salaman- Washington

When tragedy strikes and a loved one passes away, it is extremely difficult for bereaved family members to concentrate on making funeral arrangements. One of the most caring and thoughtful acts is for a person to make funeral plans in advance in order to relieve his or her family of this burden. The following checklist is intended to serve as a guide for those who wish to engage in pre-need planning or for family members who must attend to making funeral arrangements while coping with their loss.


Gather Vital Statistics

• Date and place of birth of the deceased person, along with his or her father’s name and mother’s maiden name

• Social Security number

• Veterans discharge or claim number

• Obituary information, including education, occupation, memberships, military service, outstanding work and a list of survivors in immediate family


Notify

• Family and friends

• Funeral home and cemetery

• Clergy

• Pallbearers

• Lawyers, accountants and financial advisors

• Newspapers where obituary notice is to appear – this may include the local newspaper where the decedent last lived and his or her hometown newspaper


Selections

• Consider a “pre-need” contract – this locks in prices, but more importantly, avoids the need for on-the-spot decision making by survivors during an emotional time

• Cremation – discuss how or where ashes will be kept or disposed of

• Burial

• Casket and vault

• Cemetery property and plot

• Select grave marker and inscription on stone

• Perpetual care for gravesite

• Clothing

• Determine if jewelry (such as wedding ring) will remain on deceased when buried

• Wake/viewing hours

• Preferences as to open or closed casket

• Funeral/memorial service – time and place (arrange with clergy/church or synagogue; readings, any special music, speakers)

• Flowers

• Funeral/memorial service program, include picture and favorite saying

• Thank you cards

• Transportation (funeral home may arrange)

• Time and place for reception or visitation after funeral

• After arrangements are completed, notify out-of-town attendees of time and place of wake and/or funeral and suggest accommodations.


Documents and Other Items to Locate

• Deed to cemetery plot

• Original estate planning documents (will, revocable trust, etc.)

• Contract for pre-need services

• Photographs


Additional Actions to Consider

• Find someone to help answer phone calls, cards and letters, and to help with reception as well as greet friends and relatives when they call.

• Decide appropriate charities to which gifts may be made (religious institution, hospice, other charity, etc.) and decide appropriate memorial (e.g., scholarship fund).

• Prepare list of distant persons or organizations to be notified by letter or notice, such as colleges attended, alumni associations; college and graduate school publications; professional magazines.

• Prepare list of cancellations that should be made following death, such as club memberships.

 

For more information, e-mail Alban Salaman or Logan R. Helman at alban.salaman@hklaw.com or logan.helman@hklaw.com, respectively, or call toll free,1-888-688-8500.

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